I will use intimidating shout
If they're shouting in a belittling way, we may conclude that we must have been doing something wrong, evil, bad children and therefore, are not worthy of love and respect.
The basic effect of Intimidate is different in D&D.
WHAT TO DO This is the hardest part to manage because you're never sure of his reactions. Then in as calmest way possible, let him know that you don't intend to be a threat to him, but if you don't fulfill your needs, you will be unhappy and will have fewer positive and more negative feelings towards him.
Building a higher level of trust is very important at this point and your calmness will help a lot.
Isolated events do not create these feelings unless the event was very traumatic.
However, repeated events can cause a young mind to be reminded of earlier events and reinforces them.